Part 1
The idea that I felt most comfortable with in the RLM was "Inclusiveness" or "inclusion". I say this for really one major reason. I've been apart of organizations and activities where I didn't feel included, and I have never been more put off or unwilling to help with something in my life. For me, I want to learn about what an organization is doing, how they do it, and why they do it. I also want to feel like I'm making a meaningful contribution to the group. Whether it be through my thoughts and opinions, or through physical exertion. But when I didn't feel included, and couldn't help or be useful in any ways, I no longer wanted to be part of that group. The book does a nice job in defining the importance of inclusion:
"Being inclusive embraces having the skills to develop the talent of members so they can be readily involved. [...]. Inclusiveness breeds new leadership and creates a positive cycle that sustains the quality of an organization over time."
Because of this experience, it is always my one of my first priorities that everyone in my group feels included. I understand that not everyone wants to have a say in everything that goes on in an organization, or may not want to have a part in every activity that takes place, but I make sure that the reason they aren't participating is because they don't want to, not because they feel excluded.
Part 2
When asked to pick a children's book that reflected an aspect of the RLM, I instantly thought of Dr.Seuss. So, I walked over to my childhood bookshelf and picked out The Cat in the Hat Comes Back (hence the title of my blog post). In this book, the Cat in the Hat causes his usual mischief by leaving a pink cat ring in the tub (seen below)
After trying various methods to get rid of the ring (using dresses, shoes, and bed sheets) he has to
recruit the help of Cat A. (Seen below, again)
The Cat in the Hat continues to recruit more and more help until he finally has to recruit Cat Z (cat z is so tiny that you cant even see him) who ends up fixing the entire problem. (Seen below, once again)
(This of course is just a brief summary of the book)
I suppose I should probably explain why I thought of Dr. Seuss for this part of the assignment...
The Cat in the Hat shows how he has a great "Relational"ship (Get it?) with his network of "followers" (Cats A through Cat Z) The Cat in the Hat, after failing to solve his task at hand, requests the help of Cats A-Z. He "empowers" the cats to use whatever methods they want when helping to solve his problem, which is why I chose this book. Empowering is one of the aspects of the RLM and the Cat in the Hat empowers his "followers" to help him solve his issue. (And now my reasoning has gone full circle)
Great post Garret! The negative feelings associated with a lack of "inclusiveness" are definitely something that I have experienced as well, and we probably are not alone in that. I would be willing to wager that almost everyone has shared similar emotions at some time or another in their lives. Are there any aspects of the RLM that you found particularly troubling or difficult to understand? Personally, I know that the "inclusiveness" skill of being able to listen with empathy is definitely one that I still need to develop as I progress as a leader.
ReplyDeleteAs for part II, thanks for sharing all the pictures! For someone that has not read "The Cat in the Hat Comes Back," they were super helpful. This story is definitely a great example of the empowerment aspect of the RLM and let's be honest, who doesn't love them some Dr. Suess?
Hi, Garret! Found myself chuckling at the "Cat in the Hat Comes Back" summary. :) And it totally connects to RLM! Nice job here. I agree with you and Jake - failing to include others can really shut down a group's process and work. I'd love to hear more about your experience with this in class!
ReplyDelete